Substance abuse & getting sober

Getting Sober: Help Exists, And It Is Free To Ask

Billy has been where you are. Here are the facts and the phone numbers.

If you are in crisis right now, call or text 988 — the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. For free, confidential, 24/7 treatment referral, call SAMHSA's National Helpline at 1-800-662-HELP (4357). Both are free. Neither requires insurance.

You are not an outlier

SAMHSA's National Survey on Drug Use and Health estimates that tens of millions of Americans aged 12 and older met criteria for a substance use disorder in the past year, and that only a small fraction received any treatment. The gap is not about willpower; it is mostly about people not knowing where to start.

One safety point that matters more than anything else here

Do not detox off alcohol or benzodiazepines alone. Withdrawal from those can cause seizures and can be fatal. Medically supervised detox exists for exactly this reason. Get help for that part.

Where training fits

Exercise is not a treatment for addiction, and nobody should sell it as one. But reviews of the research find that structured physical activity is a useful adjunct alongside real treatment — it helps with mood, sleep, and the empty hours that used to be filled with something else. For Billy, the gym was the structure that made the rest hold.

Billy's own story

He drank for most of his adult life, crashed at 43, lost his marriage and his business, detoxed on a couch for a week, and got up. He is not a counselor and he will not pretend to be one. He will tell you the truth about what it took.

Optional next step

If you want this handled for you instead of figured out alone, Billy's 90-Day Program is the version of all of this built around your body, your schedule and your starting point.

See the 90-Day Program

Completely optional. Everything above is yours either way.

Where this was compiled from
  • Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) — National Helpline; National Survey on Drug Use and Health
  • 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline
  • National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism (NIH) — alcohol withdrawal and treatment information
  • National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIH) — exercise as an adjunct in substance use treatment research

Figures reflect the published guidance from these bodies at the time of writing. Guidelines are updated periodically — check the source for the current version.